EMDR as a Treatment Option for Sex Addicts
Treatment of sex addiction at New York Pathways is multi-faceted and consists of more than talk therapy. We have found over the years that by combining a number of treatment modalities, we can help our clients achieve lasting, positive change.
Our therapists are trained in many evidence-based approaches and will work collaboratively with you to create the most effective individual treatment plan.
One highly effective modality we frequently use is Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR). Developed in 1987 by psychologist Francine Shapiro, EMDR is now a widely recognized and research-supported treatment for trauma — and it has proven extremely helpful for a large portion of our clients struggling with sex addiction.
Trauma – An Underlying Factor in Sex Addiction
The first goal of treatment at New York Pathways is stopping the out-of-control sexual behavior. Once that is achieved, we can address the underlying issues that fuel it.
Most sex addicts have experienced some form of trauma and have used sexual acting out as a way to cope. Until the trauma is healed, breaking the addiction cycle permanently can be very difficult. EMDR is particularly effective for clients who have experienced distinct traumatic events (sexual abuse, violence, etc.) or prolonged relational trauma — both of which are unfortunately common in this population.
EMDR Focuses on the Sex Addict’s Specific Trauma
During EMDR treatment, the therapist takes a detailed history to identify the specific traumatic memories or beliefs driving the addiction. These may stem from a single overwhelming event or from repeated emotional neglect, verbal abuse, or abandonment.
Using bilateral stimulation (eye movements, tapping, or auditory tones), the client is guided to “float back” to the memory while remaining safely anchored in the present. The therapist helps reprocess the trauma so that the associated shame, fear, or helplessness is replaced with adaptive, empowering beliefs — for example, shifting from “I am worthless” to “I survived and I am strong.”
Learn more about what to expect in an EMDR session.
If you believe unresolved trauma is contributing to compulsive sexual behavior and you’re ready to break the cycle, New York Pathways can help. Our clinicians are experienced in integrating EMDR with addiction-specific treatment. Visit our website or call us today at 212-244-4447 for a confidential conversation.
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