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Sex Addicts Need to Just Let Go
It's okay to admit you don't want to stop. You read that right. It’s okay to admit you don’t want to stop. When I tell people who are new to recovery that it’s okay to admit that, their eyes open wide and they say, “It’s okay for me to say that out loud?” Yes. It’s...
Betrayal Leaves You at a Crossroads: Which Path Will You Choose?
Betrayal Leaves You at a Crossroads: Which Path Will You Choose? Discovering the truth about porn, affairs, or other compulsive sexual behaviors changes everything. 💔 One moment you thought you knew the person you loved—the next, your world feels like it has...
What Started With a Kiss…
Ended like this… For him, it’s porn, affairs, secrecy, trapped in a cycle of always searching for something, and always coming back empty, ashamed. For her, it’s betrayal, heartbreak, and the fear that the trust they built can never be restored. At New York Pathways,...
Am I a Sex Addict?! Understanding the truth is the first step toward healing.
Am I a Sex Addict?! Understanding the truth is the first step toward healing. For Men Caught in the Cycle Maybe it’s pornography, an affair, or a double life online. You’ve told yourself you can stop, but the pattern keeps pulling you back. One moment you’re on a...
Man Up
The brutal truth is no one is coming to save you. It is you who must rise. Your life starts and ends with youIf you are trapped in compulsive sexual behavior, whether it is affairs, massage parlors, pornography, or stuck in fantasies you are not just betraying others...
Myth: Sex Addiction is About Sex
Photo by Karthik Sridasyam on UnsplashSex addiction is one of those terms that gets thrown around casually and misunderstood easily. It conjures images of sexual prowess, i.e., the stud, and moral failure, i.e, the womanizer, uncontrollable lust. But these views—focus...
Pathways to Healing: Slow Down
Slow Down to Heal The Power of Slowing the Mind and Decision Making After Betrayal When you’ve been betrayed, especially by someone you love and trusted, the pain is nothing short of agonizing. It’s a full-body experience—emotional, mental, and physical. In the wake...
Fake it Until You Break it!
Hiding emotions of fear, anxiety, guilt, or anger by putting on a façade to the outside in order to convey confidence and self-esteem is not only ineffective, in the long run it can be bad for your health.
Awareness, Acceptance, Action in the Age of COVID-19
If there is one 12-step slogan or practice to use as your go-to during a crisis, Awareness, Acceptance, Action might be one. If you’re feeling isolated, lonely or anxious this simple tool can help bring you to a more centered and connected place. Below is a Gestalt therapy approach to this important practice.
Services Are Now In Person Or On Telehealth Platforms
New York Pathways uses Zoom conferencing for all telehealth services. Zoom is free and easy to use. Just download the Zoom application and call us at 212-244-4447 so we can run through the process.